Comment to Coincutter's Post "Wrong Again (Maybe)"

I wrote my recent article, "Men! Argh!", to vent, get something off my chest, speak my mind. Take your pick. I don't really care which one you choose, because they are all where I was at that evening.

If this article was directed at anyone, I would say it was my ex-boyfriend R. He may have already read it, and if he hasn't yet, I figure he will. R does read my posts on Blogster from time to time.

As for an apology, R has already done that, saying he was sorry for the way he was behaving that evening. We have spoken since, and seen each other since. Everything is good between us.

As for the article, just because I wrote it doesn't make it gospel, may not even make it the truth. I wrote from my heart and my mind, and those were my feelings and opinions. And they were and still are genuine. And I am entitled to have them, and entitled to share them if I so choose. On that evening, I did.

My "technically" current husband, Coincutter, chose to comment on this post. I didn't reply to his comments because I think Greatmartin's comments were sufficient. I have included them below.


['We do like maturity, stability, commitment, for starters. Oops, do I expect too much?' Boy, you are demanding, aren't you???
And, of course, there are guys like the one below who have to tell the whole blogging world about private things that should just be between you and him.
You deserve and will get better!
comment by greatmartin on November 16, 2007 9:54 PM (EST)]


[BS.. like you aren't "suicidal".. lol. I distinctly remember putting you out when you lit yourself on fire. I remember taking a loaded "shotgun" (was at your head) from you. I remember calling 911 to get you help. I even remember the "knifes" on the waterbed I patched later. I remember "dozens"f times I took pills out of your mouth.

I don't lie Debbie.. and if you want to "challenge" me on anything.. I am here..I can "prove" (for a fact) anything I say,,,,

Still luv ya!... Gary .....
Get this one Debbie... say whatever you want here. I have "proof" of anything I say.. if you deny, I will bring up. I care about you... but damn sure,, don't make me look like I never cared! Maybe you don't remember.. I was there every hospital visit,,,
comment by coincutter on November 16, 2007 9:25 PM (EST)]


Coincutter posted an article yesterday entitled "Wrong Again (Maybe)". This is my one and only comment to that post, and to Coincutter (Gary).

Gary, you are obviously unsure whether you were wrong or not. That is evident by the title of your article. Does that mean you don't regret your comments? Were you wrong to say anything in the first place? Just wondering. Do you really believe you will drop it? I guess time will tell.

To clarify, I wasn't "pissed" because you aired my dirty laundry. I wrote you back "pissed" because you mentioned in your private message that you cared, and I replied back in a private message that if you cared, you wouldn't have commented in the way that you did.

Gary, you have your blog and I have mine. I don't have to include you in my posts, and you don't have to include me in yours. According to the post that I am commenting on, you felt "slighted" (my opinion as to how you felt) because I didn't include your place in our past life together in my post about men. Guess what? My article was about me and my feelings. My life for the past 42 years and my life now. And if I omit something or someone, that is my perogative.


[I have yet to marry THAT man. I have yet to be in a relationship with THAT man. I sometimes think that I have yet to meet THAT man!] By your words and actions, Coincutter (Gary), you have more than "proven" you are not THAT man.


FINAL DISCLAIMER: Busymichmom's Blogster article titled "Men! Argh!" was not directed at anyone personally.